.But what Astrid does not recognize however is actually an honest truth that both Ortega and O'Hara-- that has 2 sons-- may confirm: The simple fact that your relationship with your parents modifications and also advances as you both age, and also perhaps for the better. "Your world facilities around [your little ones] when they're children [and also] it's a great deal job however lovely," O'Hara says. "Later, you really overlook that, since after that you can not receive them to do everything you desire them to perform, due to the fact that they begin developing their personal minds, their personal viewpoints." And eventually, you wind up in the area O'Hara, whose sons remain in their 20s as well as 30s, discovers herself right now, capable to pick up from her kids. "They are actually only such trendy younger fellas," she states. "I'm certainly not their colleague, but I really love having conversations with them and also understanding just how they deal with life.".